We’re conditioned by society to never show our emotions, so we downplay all of our feelings on the surface.
When a woman is intensely interested in our feelings, we’re able to finally breathe a sigh of relief, open up and share ourselves.
If you’re interested in what men really want from a relationship, then you want to make the part of himself that he hides from the world your number one focus.
Not his looks, not his surface image, not his “mask”, not his popularity, not his career, etc.
When you know what men want, then you’ll naturally know what makes a man choose one girl to be his girl for the long term.
(Update: This article focuses heavily on the emotional connect elements of a relationship.
I think it’s important to make the distinction between what men want in a relationship and what men want with a woman.
In a strange way, sharing what we love with someone else makes it fresh for us again.
For example, when I have a new girlfriend, one of the first things I want to do is watch all of my favorite movies with her. Well, I already feel that she likes what I like (chances are, she wouldn’t be my girlfriend if I didn’t see the world in a similar way as I do), so sharing the things I love with her is kind of like bringing her into my world further.
Moreover, we also need to factor in what men want in their life.
We need to look at all three areas because they are interconnected.